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*पतन का कारण*
_श्रीकृष्ण ने एक रात को स्वप्न में देखा कि, एक गाय अपने नवजात बछड़े को प्रेम से चाट रही है। चाटते-चाटते वह गाय, उस बछड़े की कोमल खाल को छील देती है । उसके शरीर से रक्त निकलने लगता है । और वह बेहोश होकर, नीचे गिर जाता है। श्रीकृष्ण प्रातः यह स्वप्न,जब अपने पिता वसूदेव को बताते हैं । तो, वसुदेवजी कहते हैं कि :-_
```यह स्वप्न, (कलियुग) का लक्षण है ।```
*कलियुग में माता-पिता, अपनी संतान को,इतना प्रेम करेंगे, उन्हें सुविधाओं का इतना व्यसनी बना देंगे कि, वे उनमें डूबकर, अपनी ही हानि कर बैठेंगे। सुविधा, भोगी और कुमार्ग - गामी बनकर विभिन्न अज्ञानताओं में फंसकर अपने होश गँवा देंगे।*
```आजकल हो भी यही रहा है। माता पिता अपने बच्चों को, मोबाइल, बाइक, कार, कपड़े, फैशन की सामग्री और पैसे उपलब्ध करा देते हैं । बच्चों का चिंतन, इतना विषाक्त हो जाता है कि, वो माता-पिता से झूठ बोलना, बातें छिपाना,बड़ों का अपमान करना आदि सीख जाते हैं ।```
*संस्कार दिये बिना सुविधायें देना, पतन का कारण है।*
*सुविधाएं अगर आप ने बच्चों को नहीं दिए तो हो सकता है वह थोड़ी देर के लिए रोए।*
*पर संस्कार नहीं दिए तो वे जिंदगी भर रोएंगे।*
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Excellent article by. Dr.Alok Kar*
*WAKE UP PARENTS*
Years back, *poor illiterate parents* produced
?Doctors,
?Engineers,
? Scientists,
? Accountants,
? Lawyers,
? Architects,
? Professors.., whom I will refer to as *Group 'A'*.
These *Group 'A'* Children struggled on their own after Primary 6 or Grade 12, to become notable personalities. Most of them
??trekked to school *barefooted*
??went to farms
??fetched water and firewood
??cared for domesticated animals
??did some work including trading after school to survive.
Now Group 'A' ,who have now become Parents themselves are *producing Group 'B' Children*
These group B children are
?pampered
? helped in their homeworks or home assignments from nursery school through secondary schools to higher institutions.
?chauffeur driven to very expensive schools or are sent abroad to study.
?they can watch movies from morning till dawn after school.
? they are treated like baby kings and queens.
?they don't do any household chores.
?Food is put on the table for them,
?their plates are removed and washed by parents or house maids.
?They are given expensive cars and clothes,
?not forgetting *big pocket money to be wasted* !!!.
?Their parents help them in doing their assignments.
- In spite of all these, only few can *speak* or *write* correctly.
-Group 'A' Parents cared for their own *parents* and *children*, Group 'B',their Children are still *struggling to find their feet at age 30+*.‼
-They find it difficult to do things on their own because they are used to being helped to think and doing things by Group 'A'. So they can't help themselves, their parents or the society. THEY ABANDON THEIR PARENTS IN THEIR BID TO ACQUIRE THE WORLD
*Where do you belong*❓
Reduce the pampering and the unnecessary help you offer your children.
Let your children *grow in wisdom, intelligence and strength*.
Let them face the truth and the realities of life. Teach them to grow to become *independent adults.* Teach them to
-fear God,
-respect others and
-develop confidence in themselves.
-Parents, discipline your children to become disciplined adults, *useful* and not *useless.*
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